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The 3 Faces of Debt

  1. The (Sometimes) Good: Many responsible people use debt to acquire big-ticket items they need immediately. The vast majority of the population couldn't afford a college education, vehicle, or home without financing.
  2. The Bad: Credit cards or other forms of borrowing can make it easy to forget you're paying with real money. Don't take on debt without giving it some serious thought.
  3. The Ugly: When payments total more than you can afford, and there's no end in sight, debt has spiraled out of control.
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The 3 Faces of Debt

  1. The (Sometimes) Good: Many responsible people use debt to acquire big-ticket items they need immediately. The vast majority of the population couldn't afford a college education, vehicle, or home without financing.
  2. The Bad: Credit cards or other forms of borrowing can make it easy to forget you're paying with real money. Don't take on debt without giving it some serious thought.
  3. The Ugly: When payments total more than you can afford, and there's no end in sight, debt has spiraled out of control.
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Military Spouses - Financial Planning - Measure Progress

Managing Debt 101

You Can Get Your Family Out of Debt.

 

The flashing red lights of indebtedness appear long before creditors start leaving intimidating voice messages, flooding your inbox with emails, and swamping you with collection notices. It takes personal effort and discipline to get your finances under control if your family becomes overextended. Here are some tips military spouses like you can employ to reverse the chaos and get your family on firm financial ground:

    1. Stop the Bleeding. To get out of debt, you’ve got to stop adding to it. Go on a cash-only diet and don’t let a single dollar go to penalties or fees due to missed or late payments.
    2. Build a Safety Net. Stuff happens! If you don’t have cash in the bank to handle it when it does, you’ll end up going deeper in debt to pay for it. To avoid this, create an emergency fund of at least $1,000 as soon as possible.
    3. Confront Your Debt. Know what you owe. Know how you got in debt in the first place. Figure out how to minimize your costs. Ask your lenders to lower your rates or consider a consolidation loan or balance transfer. Just be careful with this and make sure you don't run up the original debts again.
    4. Know Your Cash Flow. Understand what comes in, what goes out, and how you can free up money to put toward your debt.
    5. Adjust Your Cash Flow. Now that you know how to adjust, do it! It’s time to make those budget adjustments to free up that debt-destroying extra cash.
    6. Pay It Down. Pay the minimums on all your debts except for one on which you’ll pay extra each month. To save on interest costs, attack the highest-rate debts first. To get a bigger emotional boost, attack the smallest balances first. The key is to have a plan and work it!

 

Calculate Your Debt to Income Ratio.

 

As a military spouse, one way to ensure your household stays financially healthy is to calculate and monitor your debt to income (DTI) ratios. Simply stated, your DTI is based on how much you owe compared to how much your family earns each month. So, grab a calculator. What follows may change your life.

  1. Calculate Your Consumer DTI: First, add up your total monthly debt payments — credit cards, student loans, etc. Do not include your mortgage payment or rent in this calculation. That comes later. Next, determine your monthly net income (your pay after taxes). Finally, divide your monthly debt payments by your after-tax monthly income. Then move the decimal two places to the right. The final number is the percentage of your income devoted to consumer debt. Financial experts recommend keeping your consumer DTI below 20%.
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    Military Spouses Calculate Consumer DTI
     

  3. Calculate Your Housing DTI: First, calculate your total housing payment each month. Include such things as, rent, mortgage, condo fees, etc. Next, divide this number by your total monthly gross income, i.e. before deductions. It's best to keep your monthly housing obligations below 28%.
  4.  
    Military Spouses Calculate Consumer DTI
     

  5. Finally, Calculate Your Total DTI: From the previous calculations, add your total monthly debt payments and your housing payments. Next, divide this total by your monthly gross income (before deductions). It's best to keep your total DTI below 36% of your gross pay.
  6.  
    Military Spouses Calculate Consumer DTI

 

WARNING! Avoid Payday Loans.

 

Payday loans often carry high interest rates, unaffordable repayment terms and coercive collection tactics. The penalties for extending loan repayment can be overwhelming. Securing a payday loan is relatively easy. However, they are so burdensome that the Department of Defense (DoD) has identified them as a threat to military readiness.

A payday loan may appear to be a short-term solution to a temporary cash flow problem. In reality, it is a high-interest, high-fee loan that can quickly create long-term debt.

Payday loans generally range from $100 to $1,000 depending on state legal maximums. They are repaid out of your next paycheck (usually within a two-week period). Problems develop when you do not repay the payday loan from your next paycheck.

Consider these alternatives to payday loans:

  • Talk to a counselor at your Military and Family Readiness support center and/or Military OneSource.
  • Consult your military installation for financial counseling and information on zero-interest emergency loans. Ask about financial institutions that offer lower interest loans.
  • Research interest rates on loans offered by your financial institution, which can be more competitive.
  • Consider overdraft protection for your bank account.
  • Seek consumer credit counseling.
Military Spouses - Financial Planning - Measure Progress

Managing Debt 101

You Can Get Your Family Out of Debt.

 

The flashing red lights of indebtedness appear long before creditors start leaving intimidating voice messages, flooding your inbox with emails, and swamping you with collection notices. It takes personal effort and discipline to get your finances under control if your family becomes overextended. Here are some tips military spouses like you can employ to reverse the chaos and get your family on firm financial ground:

    1. Stop the Bleeding. To get out of debt, you’ve got to stop adding to it. Go on a cash-only diet and don’t let a single dollar go to penalties or fees due to missed or late payments.
    2. Build a Safety Net. Stuff happens! If you don’t have cash in the bank to handle it when it does, you’ll end up going deeper in debt to pay for it. To avoid this, create an emergency fund of at least $1,000 as soon as possible.
    3. Confront Your Debt. Know what you owe. Know how you got in debt in the first place. Figure out how to minimize your costs. Ask your lenders to lower your rates or consider a consolidation loan or balance transfer. Just be careful with this and make sure you don't run up the original debts again.
    4. Know Your Cash Flow. Understand what comes in, what goes out, and how you can free up money to put toward your debt.
    5. Adjust Your Cash Flow. Now that you know how to adjust, do it! It’s time to make those budget adjustments to free up that debt-destroying extra cash.
    6. Pay It Down. Pay the minimums on all your debts except for one on which you’ll pay extra each month. To save on interest costs, attack the highest-rate debts first. To get a bigger emotional boost, attack the smallest balances first. The key is to have a plan and work it!

 

Calculate Your Debt to Income Ratio.

 

As a military spouse, one way to ensure your household stays financially healthy is to calculate and monitor your debt to income (DTI) ratios. Simply stated, your DTI is based on how much you owe compared to how much your family earns each month. So, grab a calculator. What follows may change your life.

  1. Calculate Your Consumer DTI: First, add up your total monthly debt payments — credit cards, student loans, etc. Do not include your mortgage payment or rent in this calculation. That comes later. Next, determine your monthly net income (your pay after taxes). Finally, divide your monthly debt payments by your after-tax monthly income. Then move the decimal two places to the right. The final number is the percentage of your income devoted to consumer debt. Financial experts recommend keeping your consumer DTI below 20%.
  2.  
    Military Spouses Calculate Consumer DTI
     

  3. Calculate Your Housing DTI: First, calculate your total housing payment each month. Include such things as, rent, mortgage, condo fees, etc. Next, divide this number by your total monthly gross income, i.e. before deductions. It's best to keep your monthly housing obligations below 28%.
  4.  
    Military Spouses Calculate Consumer DTI
     

  5. Finally, Calculate Your Total DTI: From the previous calculations, add your total monthly debt payments and your housing payments. Next, divide this total by your monthly gross income (before deductions). It's best to keep your total DTI below 36% of your gross pay.
  6.  
    Military Spouses Calculate Consumer DTI

 

WARNING! Avoid Payday Loans.

 

Payday loans often carry high interest rates, unaffordable repayment terms and coercive collection tactics. The penalties for extending loan repayment can be overwhelming. Securing a payday loan is relatively easy. However, they are so burdensome that the Department of Defense (DoD) has identified them as a threat to military readiness.

A payday loan may appear to be a short-term solution to a temporary cash flow problem. In reality, it is a high-interest, high-fee loan that can quickly create long-term debt.

Payday loans generally range from $100 to $1,000 depending on state legal maximums. They are repaid out of your next paycheck (usually within a two-week period). Problems develop when you do not repay the payday loan from your next paycheck.

Consider these alternatives to payday loans:

  • Talk to a counselor at your Military and Family Readiness support center and/or Military OneSource.
  • Consult your military installation for financial counseling and information on zero-interest emergency loans. Ask about financial institutions that offer lower interest loans.
  • Research interest rates on loans offered by your financial institution, which can be more competitive.
  • Consider overdraft protection for your bank account.
  • Seek consumer credit counseling.
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